27Sep

The smartphone has been seamlessly integrated as a cybernetic extension of the self. It’s the first thing we reach for in the morning and the last thing we see at night, a constant companion holding our memories, connections, and identity. We perceive it as an indispensable tool for navigating the modern world, a simple device under our command. But as our dependence deepens, a crucial question emerges: are we truly in control? Or is the device in our pocket subtly controlling us, rewiring our brains, and reshaping who we are? Drawn from a candid conversation with a tech insider on the front lines of consumer behavior, here are five impactful ways your phone is changing you. 

1. You're Cultivating a "Second Self" Online—And Preferring It A growing separation is occurring between our online persona and our actual self in the present moment. Increasingly, our focus shifts from experiencing life to documenting it, driven by an intense concern for how we are perceived in the virtual world. This creates a profound identity schism, where the curated, digital self begins to cannibalize the authentic, lived experience. This curated life, presented through carefully selected photos and posts, can become more valuable than the lived experience itself. The priority becomes capturing the perfect picture of an event rather than being fully present in it. As this digital representation gains importance, it makes us vulnerable. We are lured into perfecting this second self, which in turn exposes us to systems designed to exploit our need for validation. The consequence of this separation is a diminished capacity for personal growth. When a mistake happens in the real world but isn't captured online, it can feel as if it "didn't matter." Without a digital record, there's no perceived need to learn from the experience or consider how to do better in the future. They just have the representation on the phone and they would rather be okay with that self than the actual self that was in the current moment. So, it's almost like another persona. 

2. The Phone Isn't Just Using You; It's Preying on Your Fears Many users are unaware of the manipulative business models that power the "free" apps on their phones, especially older generations who didn't grow up with this technology. The old adage of commercialism applies: "if you don't pay for the product then you are the product." Your attention and data are the currency. A clear example of this is the proliferation of fear-tactic ads. You’ve likely seen them: a pop-up window blares a warning that "your phone has a virus." These ads are designed to trigger fear and bypass logical thinking, tricking users into downloading malicious "cleaning" apps. Instead of helping, these apps often clog the phone, sell personal data, or lock users into unwanted subscriptions. It's critical to understand the "why" behind what appears on your screen. These systems are not just business models; they are manipulative frameworks that can have profound societal consequences. Sponsored content and fear-based ads are not there for your benefit. They are engineered for corporate gain, preying on a lack of technical literacy to extract value. 

3. Your Brain is Being Rewired for a Never-Ending Dopamine Hunt Once we are hooked on curating and protecting our digital selves, platforms keep us engaged by rewiring our brains for a constant dopamine hunt. The design of many popular apps encourages "endlessly scrolling," a behavior that trains the brain to constantly seek the next small reward. These platforms have identified a potent emotional cocktail for engagement, often centered on drama, news and politics, or criticism. This constant intake of highly charged, often negative, stimuli becomes a primary source of validation for many. The more we rely on this external validation from our phones, the more we distance ourselves from our own internal state, reinforcing the cycle of dependence. This has physiological consequences. The habit of "doom scrolling" before bed, for instance, floods the body with the stress hormone cortisol right when it should be winding down. This not only disrupts sleep but also negatively impacts long-term physical and mental health. 

4. We're Outsourcing Our Most Human Skills As we rely more on technology to handle daily tasks, we risk losing fundamental human abilities. A simple example is navigation. Where we once used physical maps to understand our location, we now plug an address into an app and follow its commands, losing a basic sense of spatial awareness. More critically, we are seeing an erosion of vital interpersonal skills. Many people now prefer texting to phone calls, a shift that strips communication of essential human elements like tone and inflection, leading to disconnect and misunderstanding. The anonymity of communicating from behind a screen can also foster vitriol, as people feel emboldened to say things they never would face-to-face. The erosion of these vital skills is so pronounced that one tech insider stated it plainly: "We kind of are losing the skill of interpersonal communication. 100%." Interestingly, technology sometimes offers a partial remedy; the use of voice memos, for example, can reintroduce the nuance of audible inflection. 

5. The Best Tool for a Healthier Tech Life Isn't an App—It's You It’s a paradox: we turn to technology to solve the problems it creates, downloading another self-care app in the hope of finding an external fix. Our environment conditions us to look for such solutions. The real answer, however, is not external. It's about building the internal skills for self-regulation. This shift from external fixes to internal strength is powerfully illustrated by this story. After years on and off various prescriptions without finding lasting success, true mental stability came not from a pill, but from consciously building a "relationship with stability." This was achieved through practices like Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and mindfulness, which focus on internal communication and awareness. This journey is about understanding how your own brain processes information and being conscious of your internal state. Instead of turning to another app that can become a distraction, the most effective methods are often analog. Practical tools like setting firm app timers and keeping a physical notebook for journaling allow for focused self-reflection without the temptation of getting pulled back into the digital world. 

Conclusion: Reclaiming Your Attention The architecture of our digital lives is not accidental; it is a landscape engineered for extraction. Our phones are powerful, but their default settings are designed to capture our attention, reshape our habits, and monetize our behavior. From cultivating a preferred digital self to rewiring our brains for constant stimulation, the effects are subtle but profound. Being aware of these mechanisms is the first step toward reclaiming our agency. The next time you pick up your phone, ask yourself: Are you using it as a tool, or is it using you?

19Aug

 Democratizing Information 

When Johannes Gutenberg unveiled his movable-type printing press in the mid-15th century, few could have imagined how profoundly it would reshape society. What seemed at first to be a technical innovation in book production soon proved to be one of the most disruptive forces in human history. The press democratized access to knowledge, lowered the cost of books, and fueled literacy and the spread of ideas that ignited the Renaissance. Yet it also provoked fear. Authorities—both religious and political—recognized the printing press as a threat to their control over information and attempted to contain it through censorship, licensing, and even book burnings. The story of the printing press is not just a historical curiosity. It offers a striking parallel to our current moment with generative AI. Much like the press, AI is a technology that enables alterity—radical change that challenges existing systems, hierarchies, and accessibility to information. Alterity here means more than just “otherness”; it describes the transformative potential of a new way of producing and sharing knowledge. 

Who Resisted the Printing Press 

  • Religious authorities: The Catholic Church had long controlled access to scripture and its interpretation. The press broke that monopoly, enabling vernacular translations of the Bible and fueling the Protestant Reformation.
  • Political authorities: Monarchs feared that dissenting or revolutionary ideas could spread too quickly to contain. Early presses faced licensing requirements and censorship.
  • Knowledge gatekeepers: Monasteries, universities, and scribes who had once mediated access to texts found their influence diminished.

 Who Resists Generative AI 

  • Corporations: Media and tech companies fear loss of control over content, profits, and intellectual property. Ironically, some of the loudest voices warning of AI’s dangers come from within Big Tech itself—often in ways that could cement their control by shaping regulation.
  • Political leaders: Democracies fear AI-driven misinformation; authoritarian states fear its potential to weaken censorship and empower dissent.
  • Intellectual gatekeepers: Scholars, journalists, and cultural critics worry about the erosion of expertise, authorship, and human creativity.
  • Ethical doomsayers: Some warn of existential risks, framing AI as a possible extinction-level threat. These narratives often capture attention, funding, and influence.

 The Deeper Pattern: Knowledge and Power

At its core, resistance of disruptive technology reflects a deeper pattern: the loss of control over knowledge. In Gutenberg’s time, the ability to read, interpret, and spread ideas moved from a select elite to the broader public. Today, generative AI similarly lowers barriers to content creation, analysis, and creativity. When everyone can generate ideas, summaries, art, or even code, the monopoly of traditional gatekeepers is destabilized.

Using Generative AI Positively

Rather than seeing AI only through a lens of fear, we can embrace it as a tool for learning, connection, and creativity. Here are a few practical ways to use it constructively: 

  • Foster dialogic learning: Use AI to spark conversations, pose multiple perspectives, and support reflective dialogue.
  • Assess for misinformation: Use AI as a tool to cross-check claims and strengthen critical thinking about sources.
  • Generate better questions: Let AI help formulate thoughtful questions that improve human interaction and discussion.
  • Support reading comprehension: Read a book and use AI to generate a clear, accessible summary to reinforce understanding.
  • Create non-sensationalized news summaries: Use AI to distill current events into balanced, fact-based summaries that avoid sensationalism and reduce stress.

 A Closing Thought 

The printing press reminds us that disruptive technologies are not inherently good or bad. They are tools that enable alterity—a break from the old order, with both liberating and unsettling effects. Generative AI, like the press, will expand access to knowledge while provoking those invested in gatekeeping to amplify fears. The challenge for us today is to recognize the resistance for what it often is: a defense of power and profit. And the opportunity is to ask—how can we use this technology to broaden human potential, deepen well-being, and write a new chapter of collective learning? 

Alterity Technology that enables alterity can be understood as technology that democratizes generative learning, creating access for more people to produce and share knowledge, and in doing so, has the potential to radically change existing systems of power, authority, and culture. 

At Next Level Safety, we believe technology can serve community well-being when AI is used in a safe and ethical manner. 

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